In the movies, you’ll always see a partner (usually the groom!) scrambling to write his vows on a paper napkin a few minutes before the wedding. Don’t get us wrong, this actually works out for some people! But we highly recommend giving yourself a few weeks and a couple of drafts to make sure you say everything you want to say.

Borrow From Others

Your vows should absolutely be unique, but a little inspiration goes a long way. You’re not writing a college paper…